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Introduction: Forgiveness is a broad term. The Scriptures present
two major subdivisions: the forgiveness of God and the personal forgiveness of one
another. Although the forgiveness of one another is founded in the forgiveness of
God, personal forgiveness is the emphasis of this study. There have been volumes
written on and about the forgiveness of God. Unfortunately, there has been much
less written about personal forgiveness between believers. Forgiveness seems to
settle into two extremes. The first extreme becomes a wide open forgiveness
where the forgiveness is an overlooking of sin and sinful behavior based upon stand-alone
interpretations of passages like Matthew 18-21-22 and Colossians 3:13.
Matt 18:21-22 Then Peter came to
Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive
him? Up to seven times?" 22 Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up
to seven times, but up to seventy times seven." (NKJ) Col 3:13 bearing with one another,
and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ
forgave you, so you also must do. (NKJ)
The other extreme becomes a half-hearted forgiveness
where believers do speak to one another, but there is no restoration of trust, interchange,
nor commerce like that that existed before the offense. This, I believe, is based
upon a defective view of forgiveness in which the offending sin of the guilty person
has not been fully addressed. This study is an attempt to try to present a (I hope)
balanced view on forgiveness between believers.
God's Forgiveness: A Foundation God's forgiveness of the believer's sins is one marvelous
provision of eternal salvation. According to the believer, he simply receives the
forgiveness of God for all past sins at the point of salvation. Yet, it is much
different for God. Dr. Louis Sperry Chafer has written:
Forgiveness on the part of one person
toward another is the simplest of duties, whereas forgiveness on the part of God
toward man proves the most complicated and costly of undertakings. As seen in the
Bible, there is an analogy between forgiveness and debt and, in the forgiveness
that God exercises, the debt must be paid - though it is paid by Himself - before
forgiveness can be extended. Thus it is learned that while human forgiveness only
remits a penalty or charge divine forgiving must require complete satisfaction for
the demands of God's outraged holiness first of all.1
Although Dr. Chafer takes human forgiveness to be
rather simple, he clearly presents the high cost of divine forgiveness. Payment
or restitution for sin in the death of Christ was necessary. Furthermore, divine
forgiveness is received because of faith in Christ - "faith alone in Christ
alone." Some scriptures call upon man to repent such as Acts 3:19 and Acts
26:20.
Acts 3:19 Repent therefore and be
converted, that your sins may be blotted out, so that times of refreshing may come
from the presence of the Lord, (NKJ) Acts 26:20 [Paul declared] . . .
throughout all the region of Judea, and then to the Gentiles, that they should repent,
turn to God, and do works befitting repentance. (NKJ)
Here, the clear meaning of repent is not a separate
step in securing salvation and the forgiveness of sins, but a change of mind from
unbelief to belief. Repent is the translation of the Greek word METANOIA (metanoia)
which means "a change of mind." Dr. Robert Lightner sees this use of repent
in salvation not as a separate step, but as included in believing.
The word repentance means a change
of mind. Because of the confusion . . . many make repentance a separate and additional
condition of salvation. This is not true in the Word. There is no question about
it: repentance is necessary for salvation. However, Scripture views repentance as
included in believing and not as an additional and separate condition to faith.
All who have trusted in Christ as Savior have changed their minds regarding Him
and their sin. (Of course it would be impossible to change one's mind without trusting
the Savior.) According to scriptural usage repentance
is almost synonymous for faith. Paul said he declared to both the Jews and the Greeks
"Repentance towards God and faith toward our Lord Jesus Christ."2
Zane C. Hodges, taking a slightly different view,
also does not see repentance as a separate condition to salvation, nor as the other
side of the same coin of faith as does Lightner. Hodges sees repentance as one of
several ways used by God to prepare the sinner to accept the free gift of salvation.3
For the believer who sins after salvation, the Scripture
makes it clear that the forgiveness of God is based upon a change of mind (repentance)
that confesses agreement with God that the offense is sin (Acts 8:22, 1 John 1:9).
Acts 8:22 [To Simon the magician]
Repent therefore of this your wickedness, and pray God if perhaps the thought of
your heart may be forgiven you. (NKJ) I Jn 1:9 If we confess our sins,
He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
(NKJ)
Therefore, what is basic to God's forgiveness of
the sinner is both the restitution made by Jesus Christ on the Cross - His Atonement
- and our willingness to change our minds about Christ (unbeliever) and believe
or change our minds about the sin (believer) and confess it. In both cases a basic
change of mind or metanoia type repentance as a part of belief or confession
plays a part in receiving the forgiveness of sins from God. On the other hand it is most important to realize
that God's forgiveness has never been an "overlooking" of sins and trespasses.
God, as the ultimate victim of all sin, has received restitution in the death of
Christ. The forgiveness of God or receipt of a pardon4
from God is based upon this restitution for sins having been made by Jesus Christ. From the
earliest mention of forgiveness as it relates to the Lord, our sins have never been
discounted nor overlooked. We are forgiven because restitution has been made. Though
God made the restitution for us, it was still required to obtain God's forgiveness.
To put it the opposite way: without the restitution payment of Jesus Christ, there
would be no forgiveness!
The Forgiveness of God and the Forgiveness
of Man The biblical teaching on forgiveness is divided into
two categories: (1) Religious Forgiveness before God, and (2) Civil Forgiveness
before men. Example Verses: Religious - Colossians 1:14; Civil - Colossians 3:13.
Col 1:14 In whom we have redemption
through his blood, even the forgiveness of sins: Col 3:13 Forbearing one another,
and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ
forgave you, so also do ye.
Religious forgiveness involves maintaining the vertical
relationship between the believer and the Lord. As seen in Colossians 1:14,
it is gained at salvation through the restitution payment made by Christ's death.
It is maintained through the confession of sins by us and the cleansing of sins
by God (1 Jn 1:9). Civil forgiveness involves the maintaining of horizontal
relationships between people - the real emphasis of this study. Some sins by
their very nature involve other persons and are against people. They are offended
by our offenses. When this is the case, religious forgiveness must include civil
forgiveness. The horizontal relationship is to be reestablished as a part maintaining
our vertical relationship with the Lord. As shall be shown, civil forgiveness is
to be sought, once an offense has occurred by the offender, through a change of
mind metanoia repentance and restitution when required.
Forgiveness from the Viewpoint
of the Offender The Offender is first considered because it is the
hoped that the reader who sins will not allow an offense to lay and fester, but
will seek out and take the correct Biblical action to resolve the problem before
God and also before man.
The Victimless Offense The victimless offense is actually a misnomer. God
Himself is the victim of all our sin. Examples would be mental attitude sins or
sins that never actually reach out to offend another person. However, all sin does
offend God and He becomes the ultimate victim (Rom 3:23; 8:7)
Rom 3:23 for all have sinned and
fall short of the glory of God, (NKJ) Rom 8:7 Because the carnal mind
is enmity against God; for it is not subject to the law of God, nor indeed can be.
(NKJ)
Because God is victimized by our private and personal
sins, we are to confess our sins to Him (1 Jn 1:9) and gain His forgiveness. Our
agreeing with God in confession involves seeing our sin and acknowledging it as
He sees it. This brings God's forgiveness. He has not overlooked our sin nor simply
excused it, but has applied the restitution payment paid by His Son on the Cross
(1 Jn 1:7) to forgive our sin. The result is that the vertical relationship is restored.
By definition nobody but God was offended by our sin. Therefore, confession before
the Lord ends the matter.
Offenses with Victims This type of offense involves sinning against other
persons. Others are somehow affected by our sin and thereby offended. We have "trespassed"
against both God in our vertical relationship and against others with which we share
a horizontal relationship in this category of sin. Therefore, forgiveness must restore
the horizontal relationship with persons sinned against and also the vertical relationship
with God - both civil and religious forgiveness must be sought.
An Alternate View: At this point some propose5
that the believer ONLY needs to confess an offense to God and be forgiven without any need
to seek civil forgiveness nor to resolve the horizontal relationships offended. The claim is made that the death of Christ brings
forgiveness before God (religious) AND before men (civil) without any further resolving
or restitution between men. The proponents argue that every sin and crime need only
be confessed to God for total forgiveness. The victim is required to forgive based
solely upon the forgiveness that they have personally received in Christ. This view
is proposed from faulty interpretations of passages like Ephesians 4:32 and Colossians
3:13.
Eph 4:32 And be kind to one another,
tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave you. (NKJ) Col 3:13 bearing with one another,
and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ
forgave you, so you also must do. (NKJ)
If this view is carried to its logical end, the victim
MUST FORGIVE and be restored with the perpetrator (restored in horizontal relationship)
solely upon the forgiveness of Christ. Thus: (1) The thief steals, confesses to God, and is supposedly
totally forgiven - tough luck for the victim who has lost real property. (2) The slanderer libels, devastates his target,
confesses to God, and is supposedly totally forgiven - Tough luck again for the
victim with a ruined reputation. As should be quickly surmised, this is NOT BIBLICAL. The basic arguments against this view involve the
fact that the death of Christ made payment or restitution for the sins of men BEFORE
GOD satisfying His victimization in all sin. Satisfying man's victimization demands
pursuing the issues of civil forgiveness yet to be presented. God's righteousness
and justice were satisfied (propitiated) by the death of Christ so that men can
receive God's (religious) forgiveness as well as eternal salvation. Also, God's payment or restitution as an included
party in the sins of one man against another was covered by the death of Christ,
but sins against society and against one another require civil restitution for forgiveness
before God and men. Thus: (1) The thief steals, realizes his sin, confesses
to God and the victim, makes restitution, and is forgiven by God. He is also required
to be forgiven by men. God was compensated in the death of Christ. The victim was
compensated by restitution. (2) The slanderer libels and devastates his target,
realizes his sin, confesses to God and the victim, makes restitution, and is forgiven
by God. He is also required to be forgiven by men. God was compensated in the death
of Christ. The victim is compensated by the restitution. This is the OVERVIEW of the basic principle that
must be detailed from the Scriptures. Those who hold that confession to God alone
is all that is necessary for forgiveness remove the basis for criminal law. They
also remove the basis of restitution to victims. Some holding this view include
in their logic a faulty interpretation David's prayer of confession in Psalm 51
where he states, "Against Thee, Thee only, have I sinned, . . ."6
God is pictured as the only one to whom confession must be made thus avoiding the command
of James 5:16 to "confess your faults to one another" which should be
interpreted as following the normative process of civil forgiveness in the confession
of the sin(s) of the offender to the offended parties.7
What an Offender Does to be Forgiven Having outlined an overview of what an offender should
do when involved in sin against another, the Scriptures are now set forth. Since one of the proper uses of the Old Testament
is "for our example" (1 Cor 10:11), the foundation for what an offender
should do to seek forgiveness includes the examples of God's Law. Leviticus 6:1-7
presents clear guidelines about the principles involved when one sins against God
and another person.
Lev 6:1-7 And the LORD spoke to
Moses, saying: 2 If a person sins and commits a
trespass against the LORD by lying to his neighbor about what was delivered to him
for safekeeping, or about a pledge, or about a robbery, or if he has extorted from
his neighbor, 3 or if he has found what was lost
and lies concerning it, and swears falsely-- in any one of these things that a man
may do in which he sins: 4 then it shall be, because he has
sinned and is guilty, that he shall restore what he has stolen, or the thing which
he has extorted, or what was delivered to him for safekeeping, or the lost thing
which he found, 5 or all that about which he has
sworn falsely. He shall restore its full value, add one-fifth more to it, and give
it to whomever it belongs, on the day of his trespass offering. 6 And he shall bring his trespass
offering to the LORD, a ram without blemish from the flock, with your valuation,
as a trespass offering, to the priest. 7 So the priest shall make atonement
for him before the LORD, and he shall be forgiven for any one of these things that
he may have done in which he trespasses." (NKJ)
The situation involves a sin against the Lord that
is also a sin against another person. There are victims involved. God is first set
forth as the ultimate victim of all sin. This scenario also includes persons who
are victims. The pattern for forgiveness set forth includes the offender seeking
religious forgiveness with God to restore the vertical relationship through the
required trespass offering. It also includes seeking civil forgiveness and restoring
the horizontal relationship through a change of mind (metanoia) repentance,
confession and restitution. The offenses mentioned include both minor, lying,
false swearing (v.2,3), lessor categories ("any of these things" v.3)
to major offenses, robbery (V.2), and extortion (v.2). The requirement is that the offender who is guilty
of the sin (1) come before the Lord (v.6), (2) Acknowledge the sin by a mind changing
repentance and confess it8
(v.6-7), (3) Make restitution (v.5), and then (4) receive final forgiveness from God (v.7). The offense here is not viewed as outright criminal
activity. If it was, the restitution would at least be double as per Exodus 22:1-4.
The restitution here involved restoration plus an added payment of twenty percent.
Under this formula, forgiveness is granted by God and is also to be granted by the
victim. Forgiveness means "to discharge, dismiss, acquit,
let loose from; to remit a debt or sin, to pardon."9
Forgiveness does not mean that the offense will be forgotten. Jay Adams explains further
what is involved:
Forgiveness means no longer continuing
to dwell on the sin that was forgiven. Forgiveness is the promise not to raise the
issue again to the offender, to others or to himself. Brooding is a violation of
the promise made in granting forgiveness.10
Furthermore, as the principles of forgiveness are
followed, there is
". . . the establishment of a
new relationship between the offender and God and between the offender and the offended
party (parties).. . . enmity and alienation are replaced by peace and fellowship."11
The offender is forgiven. The estranged relationship
is restored and peace should prevail. The former offender has not only been forgiven
by the grace of God, but has taken the required action to seek to make restitution
to the victim. It must be noted that where tangible property is
involved, the principle is straightforward as in the above example. However, in
intangible areas where a reputation has been damaged, a confidence or trust violated,
or the sin has driven a wedge between believers, the restitution may only be in
an apology or restitution that requires the offender to retrieve the maligning or
gossip before all involved. In the latter case, this should be sufficient. In the
former case, the offender can only make restitution by exhibiting "fruits worthy
of repentance" (Matt 3:8) over a period of time. On the other hand, the victim
must forgive the offender before God and leave things in His hands while seeking
reconciliation.12
A second Old Testament passage that addresses what
an offender should do to obtain forgiveness is found in Leviticus 5:15-16.
Lev 5:15-16 If a person commits
a trespass, and sins unintentionally in regard to the holy things of the LORD, then
he shall bring to the LORD as his trespass offering a ram without blemish from the
flocks, with your valuation in shekels of silver according to the shekel of the
sanctuary, as a trespass offering. 16 And he shall make restitution
for the harm that he has done in regard to the holy thing, and shall add one-fifth
to it and give it to the priest. So the priest shall make atonement for him with
the ram of the trespass offering, and it shall be forgiven him. (NKJ)
At issue is sin that is unintentional against the
"holy things" of the Lord. These "things" might be seen as the
properties of the Lord. When this happened, the Lord Himself required both the trespass
offering for the sin to resolve the vertical estrangement that the sin had caused
between himself and the Lord and a restitution payment in restoring the "holy
thing" plus twenty percent. The restoration and additional compensation resolved
the horizontal estrangement of the offender from the priest who was the Lord's personal
representative in the matter. Based upon the (1) Confession of the sin, (2) The
offering representing the atonement of Messiah to come, and (3) The restitution
payment, forgiveness was to be granted with all its ramifications discussed above.
An Interesting Application: If forgiveness
that victimizes others normally includes some manner of restitution that is seen
as restoration of the "thing" plus twenty percent, it certainly would
cause many to think twice before setting out to sin against other believers. On
the other end, for the victim, seeing restitution plus twenty percent would go a
long way toward motivating one to forgive "seventy times seven." That believer which borrowed your car and returned
it dented, would do better to return it restored with credit for a few tanks of
gasoline. He would have gone the extra mile seen in the above examples and you would
have little trouble forgiving - really forgiving - and letting him borrow the car
again!
Jesus' Teaching on Forgiveness for the Offender One passage stands out in the Lord's teaching on
forgiveness according to the offender, Matthew 5:23-24.
Matt 5:23-24 Therefore if you bring
your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against
you, 24 leave your gift there before
the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and
offer your gift. (NKJ)
Here, the offender is pictured as attempting to worship
and serve the Lord. However, as an offender, there is a sin, an offense that stands
between himself and another. Because of the order of procedure, the logical assumption
is to assume that the offense also stands between the offender and God. In other
words, the vertical relationship has been violated by the sin as well as the horizontal
relationship. Both civil as well as religious forgiveness are to be sought. Bringing a "gift to the altar" assumes
the desire by the offender to be reconciled with the Lord. In terms of Romans 6:13,
the offender has decided to "yield his members as instruments of righteousness
to God." He has acknowledged his sin to the Lord with the desire of forgiveness
from the Lord. Yet, the Lord instructs the offender to "first
be reconciled to your brother and then come and offer your gift." The obvious
conclusion is that as in the Old Testament example of Leviticus 6:1-7, civil forgiveness
is to be sought as a part of God's religious forgiveness. Both the horizontal estrangement
with the person(s) offended needs to be addressed and also the vertical estrangement
(unresolved sin) with the Lord.
Biblical Examples of Offenders Seeking Forgiveness Except for those seeking salvation forgiveness there
are few examples of offenders seeking forgiveness. Two examples in the Old Testament
and two examples in the New Testament shall be set forth of an offender seeking
forgiveness. Pharaoh: The first example is the Pharaoh
of Egypt who when faced with the plague of locusts asked forgiveness of both the
Lord and of Moses who represented Israel in Exodus 10. Because of Pharaohs' refusal
to let Israel go, God sent the locust plague. In the severity of the plague, Pharaoh
quickly realized his trespass. He approached Moses for forgiveness.
Exod 10:16-17 Then Pharaoh called
for Moses and Aaron in haste, and said, "I have sinned against the LORD your
God and against you. 17 Now therefore, please forgive my sin only this once, and
entreat the LORD your God, that He may take away from me this death only."
(NKJ)
Pharaoh, as an unbeliever, recognized the trespass
was against both God and man. He confessed his sin to Moses asking for his forgiveness
and also asking Moses to entreat God for His forgiveness. It is obvious that the restitution offered to the
Lord and Moses was a reconsideration of letting Israel leave Egypt. Moses and the
Lord forgave, removing the plague. However, Pharaoh later refused the restitution
and would become subject to more plagues.
Exod 10:18-20 So he went out from
Pharaoh and entreated the LORD. 19 And the LORD turned a very strong west wind,
which took the locusts away and blew them into the Red Sea. There remained not one
locust in all the territory of Egypt. 20 But the LORD hardened Pharaoh's heart,
and he did not let the children of Israel go. (NKJ)
Abigail: The second example is Abigail who
sought to take the blame for the evil of her husband, Nabal, who had railed upon
David. As David, in anger, would seek to take vengeance, Abigail came to David in
the name of the offender, Nabal, asking forgiveness with gifts of restitution.
1 Sam 25:18 Then Abigail made haste
and took two hundred loaves of bread, two skins of wine, five sheep already dressed,
five seahs of roasted grain, one hundred clusters of raisins, and two hundred cakes
of figs, and loaded them on donkeys. (NKJ) 1 Sam 25:27-28 And now this present
which your maidservant has brought to my lord, let it be given to the young men
who follow my lord. 28 Please forgive the trespass of your maidservant. For the
LORD will certainly make for my lord an enduring house, because my lord fights the
battles of the LORD, and evil is not found in you throughout your days. (NKJ)
Although nothing is mentioned of confession to the
Lord, certainly the horizontal relationship that had become estranged was addressed
with (1) Confession, (2) Seeking forgiveness, and (3) Restitution.
The Prodigal Son: The major New Testament
example is that of the prodigal son (Luke 15:11-32). The most familiar parable begins
with the younger son obtaining and wasting his inheritance on "riotous living"
(v.13) and on prostitutes (v.30). As he runs out of money and begins to reap the
results of the terrible decisions he has made, he realizes he has sinned. He has
a metanoia mind changing repentance and realizes that he has sinned against
God and also against his father.
Luke 15:18-19 I will arise and go
to my father, and will say to him, "Father, I have sinned against heaven and
before you, 19 and I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Make me like one
of your hired servants. (NKJ)
The son realizes his sin has vertical (man to God)
and also horizontal consequences (man to man). It is assumed that at that moment
of repentance he probably confessed his sins to God and determined to return to
his father with the offer of the minimal restitution. He would return to his father
to become as a hired servant. In this example, the father - a picture of our Heavenly
Father - a victim in this offense, accepts the repentance, but refuses the restitution.
He fully restores his son solely based upon the repentance and the offer
of restitution he made.
Luke 15:21-22 And the son said to
him, 'Father, I have sinned against heaven and in your sight, and am no longer worthy
to be called your son.' 22 But the father said to his servants, 'Bring out the best
robe and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand and sandals on his feet. (NKJ)
The Attitude of Zacchaeus: A second New Testament
example is that of the attitude portrayed by Zacchaeus in Luke 19:1-10. As Jesus
comes to Jericho, this short rich tax collector climbed a tree to see the Lord Jesus
Christ. Jesus, seeing the desire and faith of Zacchaeus, would choose to stay in
his house. Zacchaeus was overjoyed though there were others who would criticize
Jesus for being a guest in the house of a sinner. Evidently Zacchaeus heard the simple message of the
gospel that would be "faith alone in Christ alone." His great joy in having
fellowship with Jesus may very well speak of his salvation. As the complainers label
Zacchaeus "a sinner," Zacchaeus proposes what he would do to show forth
the fruits of his salvation.13
Luke 19:8-9 Then Zacchaeus stood
and said to the Lord, "Look, Lord, I give half of my goods to the poor; and
if I have taken anything from anyone by false accusation, I restore fourfold."
9 And Jesus said to him, "Today salvation has come to this house, because he
also is a son of Abraham; (NKJ)
The attitude portrayed by Zacchaeus was that if he
had been an offender in any of his tax collecting activities, he desired to seek
forgiveness. His seeking forgiveness would be based upon (1) Seeing that he had
made a "false accusation" [Repentance]; (2) Acknowledging it [Confession];
and (3) Seeking forgiveness with a fourfold restitution.
Conclusions for Offenders Seeking Forgiveness 1. In a victimless offense, God is still the victim
of all sin and forgiveness by confession needs to be sought. (1 Jn 1:9) 2. In offenses where others are victimized, the offender
must realized that both vertical estrangement with God and horizontal estrangement
with the offended persons has occurred. Both religious and civil forgiveness must
be sought. Scripture seems to precondition religious forgiveness upon seeking (even
if not received) civil forgiveness. Lev 6:1-7; Matt 5:23-24. 3. The offender seeking forgiveness should confess
the offense to all involved starting with God and seek to make restitution plus
an additional amount to the persons involved. Lev 5:15-16; Lev 6:1-7; 1 Sam 25:27-28.
Forgiveness from the Viewpoint
of the Victim Most of the Scriptures that deal with the topic of
forgiveness address it according to the believer who has been wronged or victimized
by the sin of another. If the offender would follow the Biblical guidelines
and do what is right before the Lord, estrangement issues would be easily handled
and peace and fellowship would follow. However, because of continued sin that is
rampant, offenders often fail to do what is right until various pressures are brought
to bear. Just as the offender's sin has ramifications with
God and also the victim, the granting of forgiveness involves both God and the offender.
A survey of the New Testament passages that deal with person to person forgiveness
clearly reveals that as believers we are commanded to be forgiving and to forgive.
The remainder of this study will seek to glean some details.
Granting Religious Forgiveness: Forgiving an Offender
Before God Whenever an offense has occurred from the smallest
to the greatest and we are the victim, the immediate step of forgiveness is due
before God. Although our victimization was not caused by God, but by sin, God, by
allowing it has chosen to use it somehow in our lives. In keeping with the realization
that in God's all-encompassing plan, "all things work together for good"
(Rom 8:28) and "in everything give thanks" (1 Thes 5:18), our approach
to God is the first step in granting forgiveness. In fact, God demands that we
release the offender to Him by prayer forgiveness (Mark 11:25-26 and Rom 12:19).
Mark 11:25-26 "And whenever
you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father
in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses. 26 But if you do not forgive, neither
will your Father in heaven forgive your trespasses." (NKJ)
As the victim of an offense, we can either react
or turn it over to the Lord. The Lord commands us to forgive, releasing the offense
and the offender to Him. The forgiveness spoken of here is before the Lord in prayer.
In context, the Lord is teaching on prayer. One aspect of being the victim of some
offense is the immediate retaliatory sins14
that pop into the mind - mental attitude sins - toward the offender. These sins must be handled.
The Lord commands us to forgive. This forgiveness involves a releasing of the offender,
the offense, and our victimization into the hands of the Lord. It is further explained
by coupling this idea with Romans 12:19.
Rom 12:19 Beloved, do not avenge
yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, "Vengeance is
Mine, I will repay," says the Lord. (NKJ)
The offender and the offense is to be RELEASED to
the Lord for Him to handle. He is to be relied upon to "repay" out of
His own plan for the offender and His vengeance. Our attitude before the Lord is
to have forgiven and released the offense. In the words of Jay Adams, previously
cited:
Forgiveness means no longer continuing
to dwell on the sin that was forgiven. Forgiveness is the promise not to raise the
issue again [here complaining to God], to others or to himself. Brooding is a violation
of the promise made in granting forgiveness.15
In releasing the offense and the offender to God
by this act of vertical forgiveness or our granting religious forgiveness, the Lord
can then forgive our sins. I take this as God's forgiveness of our immediate or
lingering reaction sins toward the offense and the offender. The same is to be said
for similar contexts in which God's forgiveness of us is based upon our forgiving
of others (Matt 6:12,14,15; 18:35; Mark 11:25,26; Luke 6:37; 11:4) When the Lord couples His forgiveness of us with
our forgiveness in prayer - our granting of religious forgiveness - He is not conditioning
our eternal forgiveness of sins upon being forgiving. Louis Barbieri has said:
Though God's forgiveness of sin
is not based on one's forgiving others, a Christian's forgiveness is based
on realizing he has been forgiven (cf. Eph 4:32). Personal fellowship with God is
in view in these verses (not salvation from sin). One cannot walk in fellowship
with God if he refuses to forgive others.16
Therefore, to summarize, the first step in granting
forgiveness is the granting of religious forgiveness before God by forgiving the
offense and the offender through turning the whole matter over to the Lord for His
action and vengeance if necessary. One of the best examples of this happening was with
David and Nabal in 1 Samuel 25. Nabal offended David. David reacted and would seek
to take his revenge. Abigail, wife of Nabal, interceded for her husband and convinced
David to turn the offense and the offender over to the Lord. Because Nabal would
continue unrepentant, the Lord ends striking him dead in His vengeance.17
Finally, religious forgiveness is often the only
type of forgiveness that can be granted toward unbelievers. They are forgiven by
the victim before the Lord and left in His hands as unbelievers whom God's loves
and who are in need of the gospel. We deal with these unbelievers with the same
desires to see their salvation and cautions as we would deal with any other unbelievers
at various levels of communication and commerce18.
Granting Civil Forgiveness: Personally Forgiving
an Offender The process of granting forgiveness comes next. The
Lord commands us as believers to forgive one another as we have received the forgiveness
of our sins in Christ (Eph 4:32; Col 3:13).
Eph 4:32 And be kind to one another,
tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave you. (NKJ) Col 3:13 bearing with one another,
and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ
forgave you, so you also must do. (NKJ)
The granting of civil forgiveness is not simply an
overlooking of the sin(s) of the offender, but is to follow a clearly laid out process
that is found in both Matthew 18:15-17 and Luke 17:3-4. The account of Luke seems
to summarize19
best the process and will be presented first.
Luke 17:3-4 Take heed to yourselves.
If your brother sins against you, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him. 4
And if he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times in a day returns
to you, saying, 'I repent,' you shall forgive him. (NKJ)
The process of civil forgiveness is set forth in
four steps in Luke 17:3, (1) The offense, (2) The rebuke; (3) The opportunity to
repent; (4) Forgiveness (civil).
(1) The Offense: An offender has committed
a trespass against another and has sinned against him. Because we are dealing with
forgiveness according to the victim, the assumption is made that the offender HAS
NOT realized his sin or has opted not to deal with his sin in terms of the victim
as previously presented. Therefore, there is a wall, an estrangement that now stands
between believers. The Lord desire us to be at peace with one another (Heb 12:14)
and be reconciled to one another (Matt 5:24). Therefore, the offense cannot be overlooked
or allowed to stand unchallenged. The results would be an ongoing non biblical estrangement.
(2) The Rebuke: If the offender has not sought
to resolve the matter, it falls upon the victim to take the next step. The Scripture
says, "Rebuke Him." Rebuke in the original is EPITIMAO epitimao,
and is a command. It is a summary statement of the three stage process of Matthew
18:15-17 that says "go and tell him" and uses the original word elegcho
meaning "to reprove." The word "reprove" ELEGCHO (elegcho)
is a strong word that may mean "to bring to light, expose, convict, or convince
someone of something."20
In the Matthew context it speaks of showing the offender his fault. The most biblical and
loving thing one can do for a sinning brother is to rebuke him by confronting him
with the truth of his sin and the solution for his sinful conduct.21
Proverbs 27:5-6 says, "Open rebuke is better than love carefully concealed. Faithful
are the wounds of a friend, but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful. (NKJ)" The word "rebuke" EPITIMAO (epitimao)
of Luke 17 is also a strong word meaning "to rebuke, reprove, censure,"
and also "to speak seriously, warn to prevent an action or bring one to an
end."22
Thus it shows that the process of civil forgiveness
demands a confrontation in love with the offender. This is not optional,
but required. The details and possible stages of such a confrontation are detailed
in the Matthew 18:15-17 account.
Matt 18:15-17 Moreover if your brother
sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he hears
you, you have gained your brother. 16 But if he will not hear, take with you one
or two more, that 'by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.'
17 And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church. But if he refuses even
to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax collector. (NKJ)
In this account there are three possible stages to
work toward the goal of repentance, forgiveness and restoration. The first stage
is a rebuke in private. This may be attempted a second time as Titus 3:10 suggests.
If the offender does not respond with "hearing you" (repentance), then
a rebuke before witnesses is the second stage. Stage one is totally private. Stage
two is semi-private.23
If the offender still refuses to "hear them" (repent), then it goes to the third
stage that is, "tell it to the church."24
At any of the stages of Matthew 18, repentance is
the desired result. If the offender repents, the final step of forgiveness is to
be forthcoming as presented in Luke 17:3. On the other hand if he will not hear
"even the church," Biblical sanctions have to be taken for the benefit
of both the church body and the unrepentant offender. Let us assume repentance first.
(3) The Repentance: Repentance is the original
word metanoia that carries the basic idea of a change of mind and attitude.
"Repentance involves a change of attitude toward sin followed by a corresponding
change of action."25
Civil forgiveness is coupled with repentance that includes the offer of restitution. For
the victim it is coupled with the verbal repentance including the offer of restitution
by the offender and is not dependent upon fruits, completing restitution, or anything
else.26
Therefore, at the most basic level a true change
of mind metanoia repentance is to be the desired result of the rebuke. The
offender truly "hears" of his sin and sees it as both God and the victim
see the sin. When he confesses this change of mind to the offended victim in the
spirit of James 5:16 "confess your faults one to another,"27
he is to be forgiven.
(4) Forgiveness (Civil): At this stage of
the summary procedure found in Luke 17:3-4, religious forgiveness (the vertical)
has already been accomplished as the victim has released the offense and the offender
to the Lord God and turned any "vengeance" over to Him. The forgiveness
step is an effort to reestablish the horizontal relationship of person to person
to allow for restoration, peace, and fellowship. Thus, based upon repentance, civil forgiveness is
to be granted by the victim.28
Luke 17:3-4 Take heed to yourselves.
If your brother sins against you, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him. 4
And if he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times in a day returns
to you, saying, 'I repent,' you shall forgive him. (NKJ)
"If he repents, forgive him." Jesus would
summarize what should be the normal RESULT of the repentance of the offender - the
victim is REQUIRED to forgive leaving any "fruits," suggested restitution,
or what follows in the hands of the Lord. Jay Adams rightly observes that this may
be the hardest step, even beyond the confrontation, for the victim.29
The disciples of the Lord also would have a very hard time with what Jesus would teach. Jesus would continue to relate His teaching of Luke
17:4. If the offender sins seven times a day and returns to the victim with a metanoia
mind changing repentance, he is to be forgiven. There is no mention of "fruits"
nor anything else that has to precede the victim granting civil forgiveness to the
offender. The responsibilities of "fruits," restitution, and the like,
are left between the Lord and the offender to be carried out. The victim is NOT
called upon to "police" the actions after repentance. The disciples had a HARD TIME with this is evidenced
by the discourse that followed.
Luke 17:5 And the apostles said
to the Lord, "Increase our faith." (NKJ)
The Lord would go on to explain that it DOES NOT
take much faith, but simple obedience to do what He was commanding to be
done about forgiveness.
Luke 17:6 So the Lord said, "If
you have faith as a mustard seed, you can say to this mulberry tree, 'Be pulled
up by the roots and be planted in the sea,' and it would obey you. (NKJ)
In other words, it does not take much faith. If you
had the grain of a mustard seed, trees and mountains could be moved. Jesus would then go on to illustrate this point with
a parable, the Parable of the Unprofitable Servant.
Luke 17:7-10 And which of you, having
a servant plowing or tending sheep, will say to him when he has come in from the
field, 'Come at once and sit down to eat'? 8 But will he not rather say to him,
'Prepare something for my supper, and gird yourself and serve me till I have eaten
and drunk, and afterward you will eat and drink'? 9 Does he thank that servant because
he did the things that were commanded him? I think not. 10 So likewise you, when
you have done all those things which you are commanded, say, 'We are unprofitable
servants. We have done what was our duty to do.' (NKJ)
The point of Jesus' parable is to say that though
a servant has worked all day obeying his master and comes in to dinner, his duties
are not done until he prepares dinner for his master. His master will not invite
him to eat immediately, but require him to fulfill his duty to prepare the master's
dinner. The servant will do his duty, prepare the master's dinner, and then sit
to eat. The servant does not receive special thanks for doing what was commanded.
He does what is his duty. In the same way Jesus was saying that it does not
take faith; it does not take feeling; nor any other thing to simply OBEY and do
what God has commanded. He has commanded that if the offender verbally exhibits
repentance, OUR DUTY is to grant civil forgiveness and forgive him. If we only do what is our duty, we are still considered
unprofitable servants. If we take steps beyond our duty, perhaps like the father
of the prodigal son, then we become more "profitable servants."30
The unfortunate fact that makes this view of how
a victim should grant repentance so hard is that we want justice! - justice as we
see it. What is often forgotten is that the offender also has responsibilities in
obtaining forgiveness as shown in the earlier examples. His responsibilities have
been placed into the hands of the Lord and the potential for His vengeance if they
are ignored. In personal situations except for criminal law, the Lord has promised
to handle offenders who do not fulfill their side of the forgiveness principles.
We must leave these things in His hands.31
Joseph: A Biblical Example of a Victim's Forgiveness If ever there was a man who had been wronged by his
family, it was Joseph. He had been hated by his brothers, almost murdered by them
and finally sold by them into slavery. In all this Joseph did not hate his brothers.
When he finally met them, in his position as second to Pharaoh, he would test them
to see if they had had a change of mind about what they had done to him. Joseph
used his younger brother, Benjamin, Jacob's new favorite, to test the brothers that
sold him into slavery. Upon seeing their concern for Benjamin, Joseph would treat
them as family. After Jacob/Israel would die, Joseph was told the wish of his father
that he forgive his brothers (Gen 50:16-17).
Gen 50:16-17 So they sent messengers
to Joseph, saying, "Before your father died he commanded, saying, 17 'Thus
you shall say to Joseph: "I beg you, please forgive the trespass of your brothers
and their sin; for they did evil to you."' Now, please, forgive the trespass
of the servants of the God of your father." And Joseph wept when they spoke
to him. (NKJ)
Joseph would rebuke his brothers (Gen 50:20), they
would repent and offer themselves as the servants of Joseph (Gen 50:18). Based upon
their words (not their servitude) Joseph would forgive his brothers (Gen 50:19-21).
Gen 50:18-21 Then his brothers also
went and fell down before his face, and they said, "Behold, we are your servants."
19 Joseph said to them, "Do not be afraid, for am I in the place of God? 20
But as for you, you meant evil against me; but God meant it for good, in order to
bring it about as it is this day, to save many people alive. 21 Now therefore, do
not be afraid; I will provide for you and your little ones." And he comforted
them and spoke kindly to them. (NKJ)
In approaching his brothers Joseph offered a strong
rebuke in Genesis 50:20 when he told them, "you meant evil against me."
Yet, in the plan of God, the Lord used this evil for the ultimate benefit of Joseph,
Israel, and even Egypt. Furthermore, the brothers gave a solid indication
of their change of mind repentance even offering themselves as servants in restitution. Finally, Joseph would forgive them based upon their
response to the rebuke and what they said. He would leave the details of their future
actions in the hands of the Lord.
When the Offender Does Not Repent What does a victim do about forgiveness when the
offender rejects the rebuke and will not change his mind and repent - even all the
way up to the third stage of Matthew 18:15-17? The victim has followed the principles on forgiveness
before the Lord, releasing the offender and the offense to the Lord - religious
forgiveness in the vertical relationship with God. Still, the horizontal relationship
is unresolved. At this point Matthew 18:17 states, "But
if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax
collector. (NKJ)" The victim is to consider the unrepentant offender as
a nonbeliever. There is a separation that needs to take place in obedience to Scripture
and for the benefit of the unrepentant offender. He is treated as nonbeliever because
he is not walking as a believer. He is to be "loved" in the same way Jesus
loved sinners and publicans, but he is no longer to be related to as a member of
the body of Christ. This is not a "shunning," but a separation from Christian
fellowship.32
The status of forgiveness is that before the Lord
the victim has forgiven (vertically) the offender. The offender has thrown up the
wall of separation from personal forgiveness by unrepentance thus blocking the horizontal
forgiveness. It must be stressed that it is NOT the victim who is being unforgiving,
but the offender who is at fault. This is much the same situation that God finds
Himself in when we sin and do not confess. We stand in a state of unforgiveness
before God. Is this God's fault? Absolutely not! It is the fault of the offender.
The victim must understand this and continue to urge repentance to the offender.
Paul and the Corinthian Church: An Example A congregation member in Corinth was living in gross
immorality and would not be corrected. At the urging of the Word of the Lord through
Paul, he was to be separated from and put out of the assembly. He stood as unforgiven
until he would repent (1 Cor 5:1,5,13)
1 Cor 5:1 It is actually reported
that there is sexual immorality among you, and such sexual immorality as is not
even named among the Gentiles-- that a man has his father's wife! (NKJ) 1 Cor 5:5 deliver such a one to
Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that his spirit may be saved in the day
of the Lord Jesus. (NKJ) 1 Cor 5:13 But those who are outside
God judges. Therefore "put away from yourselves the evil person." (NKJ)
This principle is designed to "pressure"
an offender into seeking restoration by repentance. The Corinthian congregation
member, treated in this manner, must have repented and acknowledged his sin to the
Lord and to those involved so that forgiveness could be extended and he could be
accepted back into the congregation (2 Cor 2:6-8).
2 Cor 2:6-8 Sufficient to such a
man is this punishment, which was inflicted of many. 7 So that contrariwise ye ought
rather to forgive him, and comfort him, lest perhaps such a one should be swallowed
up with overmuch sorrow. 8 Wherefore I beseech you that ye would confirm your love
toward him. (KJV)
The basic framework upon which forgiveness by the
victim to the offender is built is the change of mind of the offending party.
Conclusion In summarizing the conclusions on personal forgiveness,
separate principles apply to an Offender and to a Victim. The Offender is to (1) Acknowledge his sin to the
Lord; (2) Go to the victim(s) acknowledge his sin, his change of mind, and propose
restitution; (3) An offender following these guidelines is forgiven by the Lord
and should be forgiven by the victim(s). If the victim refuses to forgive, the victim
is now living in disobedience to the Lord. The Victim is required to (1) Forgive before the
Lord and release the offender and the offense to the Lord. (2) He is to go to the
offender with the purpose of confronting him with his sin - Rebuke. (3) If the offender
changes his mind and says so in repentance, he is to be forgiven. (4) If the offender
does not repent through all three stages of Matthew 18:15-17 (In private, Before
witnesses, Before the Church), he is to be set outside the fellowship and remains
unforgiven by his (the offenders) actions (like we are before God when we do not
confess sin). (5) If and when repentance takes place, he is to be forgiven.
Final Note Forgiveness is basic and restores fellowship among
believers. Forgiveness does not necessarily restore positions. Under Mosaic Law,
a murderer or an adulterer could be forgiven and still executed as the temporal
consequence for the sin. The same is true for positions of spiritual leadership
as seen with Moses (Nu 20:11-12), Aaron (Nu 20:23-28) and the apostate Levites of
Ezekiel 44:10-16 who, as spiritual leaders, obviously must have repented of their
sin, but lost their positions. Forgiveness is a first step to restore fellowship
while other Biblical factors are to be brought to bear on restoration to various
positions including leadership.33
When David sinned by adultery with Bathsheba and
then had her husband, Uriah, murdered, his emotional state of confession is given
in two Psalms: Psalm 32 and Psalm 51. In Psalm 51, David would characterize his
sin as "against Thee (God), Thee alone, . . ." The superficial
reading and even more superficial application of this verse to confession and forgiveness
has led to a lawless attitude toward sin. Based upon the supposed "loophole,"
the conclusion is reached that believers need only to confess a victimizing sin
to the Lord alone. As a result, the Lord supposedly forgives, and the victim, without
any perceived change in the offender, nor restitution, is supposed to forgive as
the Lord has supposedly forgiven. If this was carried through to its logical conclusion,
believers could steal from one another, confess it to God, and that would be it.
Believers could malign and slander one another, confess it to God, and that would
be it. Believers could victimize one another in many ways, confess it to God, and
that would be it. - Does this sound familiar? IT IS ABSOLUTELY WRONG!
EXPLANATION of Psalm 51:4 in historical-legal context. David's Great Sin is found in 2 Samuel 11:1-12:14.
A moment is needed to outline the specific historical details with their legal implications
before God and men. (1) 2 Samuel 11:1-4 David stayed behind as the armies
of Israel went forth to war. In the midst of David's idleness he saw Bathsheba,
the wife of Uriah and committed adultery with her. Uriah was off to war and none
the wiser. LEGAL STATUS: At this point David and Bathsheba
were both guilty of adultery. The punishment for adultery was death. The victim
of the adultery would be Uriah, the husband of Bathsheba. He would be the one required
to press charges. Penalty: Lev 20:10; The husband must press charges: Num 5:11-31
Trial of jealousy, example.
Lev 20:10 And the man that committeth
adultery with another man's wife, even he that committeth adultery with his neighbour's
wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death. Num 5:12 Speak unto the children
of Israel, and say unto them, If any man's wife go aside, and commit a trespass
against him, Num 5:15 Then shall the man bring
his wife unto the priest, and he shall bring her offering for her, the tenth part
of an ephah of barley meal; he shall pour no oil upon it, nor put frankincense thereon;
for it is an offering of jealousy, an offering of memorial, bringing iniquity to
remembrance.
With Uriah gone, the matter was secret and both David
and Bathsheba were protected from the external consequences of their sin. (2) 2 Samuel 11:5 Bathsheba conceived a child of
the illicit union that now complicated the issue for David. If Uriah, her husband,
found out, as the victim, he could press charges and have both David and Bathsheba
put to death. LEGAL STATUS: Under adultery, both faced the
death penalty as the consequence of their sin. (3) 2 Samuel 11:6-13 David's first plan of action
was to cover his sin. He would seek to get Uriah together with his wife Bathsheba
so that the child to be born would be thought to be Uriah's child. This would not
work. LEGAL STATUS: David and Bathsheba sought to
cover-up their sin and thus escape the restitution penalties. (4) 2 Samuel 11:14-25 Because Uriah didn't follow
through in the plan of David to spend a night with his wife, David determined that
Uriah would have to be eliminated. A murder was planned. Uriah would be sent to
the hottest battle and abandoned. There Uriah was slain in battle. To Uriah, as
a good soldier, he was dying in the glory of battle. To David and others in the
plot, it was murder. The Lord would be displeased. LEGAL STATUS: David was now guilty of both
adultery and murder. The penalty for both is death. Uriah, as the victim of the
adultery would have seen restitution. By murder, the victim of the adultery was
eliminated. Who did David sin against in the adultery? Uriah. He is eliminated.
In the murder David sins against God. Bathsheba was not the victim, for her husband
could have required her death also. God is the victim and it is HE WHICH REQUIRES
THE RESTITUTION OF LIFE FOR LIFE.
Penalty for Murder: Ex 21:12
Ex 21:12 He that smiteth a man,
so that he die, shall be surely put to death.
God is the receiver of restitution in murder: Gen
9:5-6 From the beginning, murder defiled the earth and
the Lord was the one requiring the restitution. The life of the murderer was restitution
to the Lord.
Gen 9:5-6 And surely your blood
of your lives will I require; at the hand of every beast will I require it, and
at the hand of man; at the hand of every man's brother will I require the life of
man. 6 Whoso sheddeth man's blood, by man shall his blood be shed: for in the image
of God made he man.
God requires the blood of the murdering beast and
the murdering man. He also delegates the authority of execution unto mankind in
society. Capital punishment is not restitution to society, but restitution to God.
The Scriptures emphasize that murder pollutes the land before God. God's requirement
for cleansing the land of its pollution is the "life" of the murderer
- capital punishment.
Num 35:30-33 Whoso killeth any person,
the murderer shall be put to death by the mouth of witnesses: but one witness shall
not testify against any person to cause him to die. 31 Moreover ye shall take no
satisfaction for the life of a murderer, which is guilty of death: but he shall
be surely put to death. 32 And ye shall take no satisfaction for him that is fled
to the city of his refuge, that he should come again to dwell in the land, until
the death of the priest. 33 So ye shall not pollute the land wherein ye are: for
blood it defileth the land: and the land cannot be cleansed of the blood that is
shed therein, but by the blood of him that shed it.
In murder, God is the victim and restitution is to
be made to God. God demands the capital punishment of the murderer as the normal
cleansing of the blood of the land. Let's put together all the factors:
SUMMARY: 1. Who was victim of the adultery between David and
Bathsheba? Who was to receive restitution? Uriah. With Uriah's death, the victim
for this sin was removed. 2. Who was victim of the murder to receive restitution?
God, and God alone. Not Bathsheba for she was also guilty of the capital offense
of adultery. 3. Thus, David, in finally confessing his sin, could
ONLY MAKE RESTITUTION TO GOD for He was the only one left against whom David had
specifically sinned: "Against Thee, Thee alone, have I sinned, . . ."
(Ps 51:4).
(5) 2 Samuel 12:1-14 David was confronted with his
sin by Nathan the prophet. He repented and expected to make restitution with
his very life. God, as the ultimate victim of this crime modified the required restitution.
David in his confession prayer recorded in Psalm 51 is only making note of God as
the ultimate victim of this sin. It is not a model to be applied to our sins in
which others are victimized.
Sin against others where victimization is involved
is not to be viewed as "against God and God alone." Religious forgiveness
requires civil forgiveness. The application of sinning against God alone
from Psalm 51:4 is wrong and lawless. There is absolutely no "loophole"
in the Lord's principles on forgiveness that requires forgiveness and bypasses repentance
and restitution to the victims of sin.
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London: Pickering and Inglis, Ltd., 1948. End Notes
1
Louis Sperry Chafer, Systematic Theology, Vol 7 (Dallas, Texas, 1948), pp.
162-163.
2
Dr. Robert P. Lightner, Sin, the Savior, and Salvation (Nashville, 1991),
p. 167.
3
Zane C. Hodges, Absolutely Free (Grand Rapids, 1989), pp. 167-180.
4
The basic meaning of the primary Hebrew word for forviveness is "pardon."
The Hebrew salach is used only of God as the ultimate victim and the one
who is always affected by sin.
5
"Some" refer to individuals involved in conversations and debates with
the author over the issues of what is required for forgiveness. The author is unaware
of any written defense of this position, yet it prevails in many areas of "Grace"
Christianity.
6
By the time David was finished with his sin of victimizing Uriah by adultery with
his wife and then murdering the original victim (Uriah), God was the only party
left as victim of this offense. A more complete discussion is found in Appendix
I of this paper.
7
I do not see any problem with James 5:16 when interpreted with a view to offenders
seeking civil forgiveness from victims by first acknowledging their sin(s) to the
victims. This is not "public" confession for the sake of some "right
to know." The confession is as "public" as need be depending upon
the number of victims involved, affected, or hurt by the sin(s) of an offending
sinner.
8
Confession is both to God by means of the trespass offering as well as to the individual
who was victimized and who will receive the restitution payment. It is assumed that
receipt of the restitution payment is proof of the confession to the individual.
9
W. Graham Scroggie, A Guide to the Gospels (London, 1948), p. 564.
10 Jay E. Adams, The Christian Counselor's Manual
(Phillipsburg, New Jersey, 1973), p. 65.
11 Ibid., p. 63.
12 Forgiveness from the victim's point of view will be
detailed later.
13 The works which Zacchaeus proposes cannot be considered
as the basis of his salvation. They are to be seen as the fruit of one just saved
and overjoyed that he will not only see Jesus, but that Jesus will be a guest in
his home. The salvation of Zacchaeus, like ours, would be founded upon "faith
alone in Christ alone." In answer to His critics, Jesus would comment on Zacchaeus
being one for whom He came to seek and to save (Lu 19:10).
14 Sins like, "That dirty so and so!" Or, "I
show them!" (Revenge). Others may include anger, bitterness, resentment, and
moments of real hatred towards the offender. We cannot receive what God has planned
as the benefits of this incident if we are immersed in such sins of attitude even
though no retaliatory ACTION is taken.
15 Adams, Op. cit., p. 65. Bracketed material is
added by author.
16 Louis A. Barbieri, Jr., The Bible Knowledge Commentary,
ed. John F. Walvoord and Roy B. Zuck (Wheaton, 1983), Matthew, p. 32.
17 In the limited experience of the author, the Lord's
vengeance is real and the principles work. A number of unrepentant offenders have
seen their businesses, ministries, and lives disintegrate before the vengeance of
the Lord. The alternative for the victim is the self destruction which takes place
when attitudes of religious unforgiveness, revenge, and bitterness control the life.
18 If an unbeliever car salesman sells you a "lemon,"
you forgive them, gently seek to recover the loss, pray for and desire their salvation,
but be wise in doing future business with them.
19 J. Carl Laney, "The Biblical Practice of Church
Discipline," Bibliotheca Sacra, Vol. No. 143 (October, 1986), p. 359.
Laney sees Luke 17:3-4 as a summary of Matthew 18:15-17 and the process of seeking
to resolve an offense and grant civil forgiveness.
20 A Greek-English Lexicon of the New Testament and
Other Early Christian Literature, trans. William F. Arndt and F. Wilbur Gingrich,
4th rev ed., p. 248.
21 Keith Megillian, "The Ministry of Rekuking,"
Journal of Pastoral Practice 5 (1981), p. 22-23, Quoted by Laney, op.
cit., p. 358.
22 A Greek-English Lexicon, p. 303.
23 I personally see the witnesses of stage two being totally
objective and not tied to one side nor the other so that if the victim is wrong
and over reacting about a supposed offense, they can help with reconcilation or
if the offender is wrong and will not hear, they can give testimony at the third
stage of this process.
24 Some see this as limited to church leadership, I do
not. The leadership view is an effort to try to preserve privacy, but the word is
ekklesia and normally has reference to the entire body of believers. God's
Word Itself does not protect the sins of the sinning Old Testament saints, but presents
them as warnings to all believers regardless of maturity levels. Moreover, church
leadership could already have been involved as "witnesses" in stage two.
If there is still a refusal to hear (unrepentance), the whole church will have to
know anyway in order to carry out the Biblical sanctions.
25 Laney, op. cit., p. 359.
26 There is strong debate over whether or not "fruits
of repentance" are needed by the victim before they forgive. This does
not negate in any way the fact that Scripture sets forth proper "fruits,"
including seeking restitution for the offender. The actual relationship of when
repentance secures forgiveness will by taken up under (4) Forgiveness.
27 This is taken as confession of sinning offenders to
those who have been personally victimized by their sin. It is only as "public"
as need be.
28 Legal Offenses and Personal Offenses: Scripture
upholds at all times a strong sense of "law." If the offense is a crime
having criminal consequences, one can still forgive in a civil way the offender,
yet see the offender face the legal consequences of their sin. This serves to uphold
God's law standards governing humanity, as a deterrent to others, and as some of
the required restitution to the victim. The Lord treats us in the very same way.
Upon confession, He forgives our sin, but we are still faced with its temporal consequences
in time. On the other hand, personal offenses may end with repentance. If the offender
seeks to do what God demands, fruits of repentance including restitution should
normally follow the change of mind.
29 Adams, op. cit., p. 68.
30 An excellent presentation of this context and presentation
of this passage is presented by Jay Adams, op. cit., pp. 63-70.
31 Again, although personal experience is never the source
of our faith, it has born out the truths of God handling offenders who abuse His
grace by verbal repentance alone and go no farther as required.
32 Laney, op. cit., p. 362.
33 Examples are provided in a paper entitled: Disqualification
from Spiritual Leadership before the Lord, Paul R. Schmidtbleicher, Th.M., 1995.
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